1- You and a few others like to really wrap up the 4.0 but it just doesn't seem to be the way I drive. I would rather have maxed low-end, but some day I might really wrap mine up. I can't believe the poop it's got at 3500RPM, lots of fun.
2-Is the MOPAR gasket the thinner one? I figured on staying with the stock gasket simply because of the strength, I'd prefer to mill the head an extra .010 and use a strong gasket for reliability.
3- I don't really see how exhaust gas can get sucked back in, nor do I understand the logic of using the "shelf" between the head and header to prevent it. Only gasses along the edges will be prevented from flowing back, and those gasses have the higher shear stress anyway, making them flow slower and with more restriction anyway. If you have a good header with long-ish primaries such as the Clifford or even Pacesetter, the exhaust pulse from opposing cylinders won't have much if any effect on gasses re-entering the cumbustion chamber. In fact they should create a suction to help pull gasses through the exhaust system.
Also, the exhaust valve should be shut before the piston starts moving back down, so how is it sucking anything back into the cylinder? Worst case senario would be the head is larger than the gasket or header blocking some of the flow, but I think (don't know, just think) that matching the exhaust port to the gasket should not have a detrimental effect.
Any thoughts?